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Getting old is a nightmare for many people, especially for women. Beacuse in some extend, getting old may means more wrinkles is showing up on your pretty face, your perfect figure is getting plump and your are becoming less charming and attractive. So, we'll feel confused, upset , disappointed and desperate.

But it's wrong! i don't like the word 'old' very much, for me, it's just a natural process and it's inevitable. So the only thing we can do about it is to enjoy this delicate process and have fun!!! With time passed by, we've achieved a lot of precious things, get a deeper acknowledgement and understanding to ourselves and the world, most important, we've learned how to appreciate and cherish what we're already have. That's wonderful!!!

I think we're as old as we feel, and it's a state of mind.  There are many old people who are sixty, seventy, eighty or even older, still keep an active mind and hold their passion and  enthusiasm to the beautiful life, and they can do everything they want. Who can say they aren't young enough!?

So i'm definitely not afraid of aging and happy to get older, 'cause i'm sure that i will enjoy my life no matter how old i am!

I've just read a funny article, and i'd like to share it with you!!

• If you messed up your life, you could press "Alt, Ctrl, Delete" and start all over!

• To get your daily exercise, just click on "run"!

• If you needed a break from life, click on "suspend".

• Hit "any key" to continue life when ready.

• To get even with the neighbors, turn up the sound blaster.

• To "add/remove" someone in your life, click settings and control panel.

• To improve your appearance, just adjust the display settings.

• If life gets too noisy, turn off the speakers.

• When you lose your car keys, click on "find".

• "Help" with the chores is just a click away.

• You'd use your diskette to recover from a crash.

• We could click on "send" and the kids would go to bed immediately.

• To feel like a new person, click on "refresh".

• Click on "close" to shut up the kids and spouse.

• To undo a mistake, click on "back".

• Is your wardrobe getting old? Click "update".

• If you don't like cleaning the litter box, click on "delete".

Have you ever known a couple that just didn't seem as though they should fit together- yet they both feel very happy in thier relationship, and you just cann't figure out why?????

So what mysterious power that drives us  into the arms of one person while pushing us away from another who appears more desireble and attractive any unbiased observers?

The most important factor that influences our choose of the perfect mate is a 'love map'-- a group of messages encoded in our brains that describes our likes and dislikes. It shows our preferences in hair and eye color, in voice, smell, body build and personslity.

And who draw a large portion in our love map?   It's our parents who affected us when we were very young. When we're little, our mother is the center of our attention, and we are the center of hers. So our mother's characteristics leave an indelible impression, and we are always attracted by people with her facial features, body type, personality, even sense of humor. Just as mothers influence their son's general feelings toward women, fathers influence their daughter's general feelings about men. If a father lavishes praise on his daughter and demonstrates that she is a worthwhile person, she'll feel very good about herself in relation to men. But if the father is cold, critical or absent, the daughter will tend to feel she's not very lovable or attractive.

I'm very proud that i have a great father who give me praises and applauds all the time and help me become a confident girl. I just want to say: thanks Dad, i'll love you forever!