I have a good work chance,but my boyfriend don't allow me to going

i'm so worried,this is a  good chance for me,but my boyfriend didn't agree with me,what should I do?I'm a student ,and this is my first job,it's relative to my major .oh,God help me,plz!!!1

take a intensity talk with him,it's a good chance for u to got a job ,i believe he'll understand u.don't give up.

Why does he behave such a silly way? He mustn't allow or not allow you anything. If I were you I wouldn't let him to treat me like that. It's your life!!!

May be he's just jelous?

sorry for that but if he like you he should let you do what you want not what he want

and i hope he will let you go and try to ask him why he don't want you to go if he have a good reason thats ok but if he doesn't have you should agnor him and go thats my idea and i'm sorry if you don't like it

I think you need  talk to him ,I'm agree with other friends it's your life ,discuss this case wiht him and do what you want n if he trust you he will help u especially if you need this work

good luck

If u have a chance at a good job I dont understand why he is againist it? I think the 2 of u just need to sit down and have a good heart to heart talk about this. Hear each other thoughts, then make the best choice. Hopefully he can understand and back u up on this.

I think if your boyfriend love you, he must share you interests! I agree with Eleniya, "It's your life!!!" Only you should define what you will do.
In your situation, you should talk with him about this opportunity, discuss the pros and cons.

 I bet  it's a job requiring u to go out of ur city ,that's where the snag is .Distance  matters  sometimes for some people.

         If you love him, try putting on his shoes, What on earth  is he thinking about?     Is he just a male chauvinist or caring too much for u ? find the anwser urself .  BTW , love is a sacred and noble job that needs mutual sacrifices.So  I sugguest u have a heart- to -heart talk and reach a compromise.THere must be some reasons he don't let u go.Be gentle and go talk to him

DON"t just  DO IT UR WAY,  it's NOt just "ur life" ,but "Your life" .

Hi,

how are you dear fu591 ?

thanks ,we can learn manythings from this kind of topics ,coz all of our dear friends come & put their opinions here & it will become a great source to see many solutions about any problem.

as i have read ,all of them are good answers ,i agree with most of them ,but the main reply is the answer from our dear friend dancin4108,

& i like this answer too : (DON"t just  DO IT UR WAY,  it's NOt just "ur life" ,but "Your life" .) from our dear friend loveisbitch .

it means : you have a partner in your life, if you love him ( true love ), you should let him to help you in making any decision about it.

I mean :sure it is your life, but you don't live alone.

who knows maybe he is right.

hope you can solve this problem as soon as possible.

have a nice time.

regards

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