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Like I always do lately, I watched a film again and found many interesting things.
I watched a film last night and its title is “He said, She said”. It’s a story of a love couple whom the man hadn’t ready yet for a marriage, for a commited relationship. They had many problems just because of that then. As it’s always, the man reconsidered his fault and then they make up again after had broken it for a while. In the end they became accepting their lackness and then they live happily ever after.=) Actually I didn’t really know that much, I mean the ending of it, but I hope it’d happened just like that.lol
what I want to ask is, what do you think about marriage? Do man really has a problem with commited relationship? What’s their concerned so they’re being a marriage’s paranoid?

Btw I’d like to say thanks to Sibel or Can I Cry, for inspiring me to come up with this idea. You’re the man, Sibel.=)

1. If you life forever in this world

2. If you never say thanks to your father

You men are just so afraid of any responsibility that don’t see how great it is to be responsible, when a woman confides in you the most precious things, her body and soul, when small little creatures call you father and look at you with admiration of those praying for god…
Hey, men who are married, tell mike that i am right pls…..

nice topic,mike.

  we have our fears.men as women fear to change life and think they'll lose their freedom in marriage.some people understand marriage as possession and problems start just from this idea.but when we understand marriage as being by each other's side,there's no problem.

Lin, I believe in marriage and the need of it in our life. Like I’d said on mature’s thread, we need to get married so that we could be a mature person with responsibility. Y’know by having a baby you’d find yourself being unselfish. So a status as husband and wife would smhow make you to be a better person.=)
So now you know that I’m not a marriage hater.=)

Lili, yeah marriage is full with problems. And those things make it more attractive. Whatsoever they face it together, husband and wife. So they can divide and arrange the family’s plan and solve problems together, which make it easier to make a solution. They can discuss it, thinking about the best solution. That’s why on my definition, every family’s decision is an combination of husband and wife’s thinking. So it’d be the best decision for both of them. Both have rights to decide the family’s future.=)

Justic,
Wow, you’re such a full of love person and unselfish person. Great to have you here.=)

I think at first it’d make a controversy to our critical friends here on ebaby.lol
Yeah maybe I’d choosed a wrong title. Sorry for the misunderstanding. Ok, lin. Peace.=)

Interesting topic mike,,i will give you this one reason or joke .

In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens. In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.

but i think not any reason makes someone not get married !

I do not know   really but I think perhaps lie in
The desire for freedom … because marriage means you're linked to someone. Forever ..

so  They do not want to Haste into marriage

Perhaps the person who chose not appropriate or not sure of  him  her  so .. If you  were   married  with  that person  you  may will require many  years to get a divorce

or if  were  not There enough money