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Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter ,'sweetheart;please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.'

The little girl said,'No ,dad.You hold my hand.''What's the difference?'Asked the puzzled father.

'There's a big difference,'replied the little girl.'If I hold your hand and something happens to me,chances are that  I may let your hand .But if you hold my hand,I know for sure that no matter what happens,you'll never let my hand go.

In any relationship,the essence of trust is not in its bind,but in its bond.

so hold the hand of the persons who like you rather than expecting them to hold yours.

what do you think? 

i always expect others hold my hands and never think what would happen if i hold their hands and then let them go.there must be someting wrong ,but what's that?

absolutely right i agree with that !

So,Girls get married to one who loves you rather than to one who you love him..

.How do you think lilimira?

Lilimira,

I love your statement,It has great value in relations.The real bonds become out of understanding & respects but not out of bonds.

this statement can be applied in relation to God also,

We should pray God to hold our hand rather than holding his hand.

Regards 

it's a good question i think.

in fact,we should hold the hands who we love,and do not expect waiting for the one who love you.

hakimi, i think i can never do it.how can we marry someone we don't love.love has to be shared .

dev, i agree.we should love ,understand and respect each others to have bond.

tinhappy, most human's  are so selfish that we  like to have love not to be in love.that's why we wait for people to hold our hands.

My answer was in red color …!

ok hakimi.i read it and i'll remember it.i'll try to act correctly before it's too late.

lilimira i understand you ,, you are right ,but in real life,its something different.

I will talk here only about myself,,i prefer to live , trust and ,share my secrets and maybe love someone who  loves me but not someone i love him or her..and he/she doesn't love me ,,do you agree.. Do you know how will be life with someone you love him or her and heor she doesnt ,,?it will endless hell..! 

If you try to find love from two parties you will find it just in films and novels..

i don't agree, hakimi.i can't share nothing with whom i don't love and i can't either  bear his/her presence.

love is shared .if you search for real love you'll get it.if you only like to be loved you'll get it too.we get what we search.and love from two parties existed and still exist.i have seen it in real life and i'm seeing it infront of me.it happens to people who understands it and not really frustrate their partener with controll and possession.

What do you think?