Why should U click 'declined', not 'approved' ?

There is some people who decline friend invitation? What’s their reason? Not beatiful/handsome?age?different vision?. Is it hard to approve or U think their’s invitation useless for your english?

I don't know, up to now, I have not decline anyone yet…

Thank aileench, I know U’re not kind of them!

Pop, after these words, can i hope you will not decline my friend request?:)

yea I'm one kind of the person who rejects people invitations.

if you read my profile then you would understand.

if someone sent a request to me without any message at all, she/he will be rejected for sure. reason: if he/she really mean it, they're going to send me a msg about them or something. an invitation without any message is probably a random invitation. anyone could just click the button and then will never talk to you again. I dont need that kind of friend. sorry to be blunt, but people in my list at least keep contact with me. I'm not a number chaser where your popularity showed by your amount of friendlist.

if I'm interested to be your friend, I would send a msg to you telling you who I am and why I added you. and I expect the same thing from people

I didn't and won't reject people for  "Not beatiful/handsome?age?different vision?. Is it hard to approve or U think their’s invitation useless for your english?"

I love having friends who have different visions, it's always fun to bouncing ideas with them. look doesn't even matter since I'm not looking for a date or something. age..hmmm let see.. my list consist of various kind of people. the fresh meat, and the experienced + wise ones.

oh and yes, it's hard for me to approve if you wrote: "hello you have nice boobs, can I be your friend dear?" or something like "I' m looking for a wife, I think you're perfect, bla bla bla"==> if men really read my profile they should find out my status.

and I will never tell you my MSN or YM by first email, trust me.

so far only a very few people from ebaby got my YM. 

 I know I might sound arrogant but hey, I rather have a few friends that I keep in touch with, than to have 

many friends in the list  but never talk to them. 

So far I haven't decline any invitation yet. Those who invited me for their friendships are nice even though some rarely continue boosting their friendships.

I am happy to have friends. However, I used to invite a person to be my friend when I first joined this site. My reason is that I liked his comment on another person's blog. I don't care about his look, nationality, age or anything.

Unfortunately, my invitation has never been returned  —-either accept or deny. o, until now, it just hungs in there and I don't know how to delete that from my page.

Sure, I don't want to be friend with this guy, ever.

If they are male and call be "baby", I decline. If they have not completed their profile, their name is black, I decline. In most cases, I would rather use the Ebaby e-mail. I already receive too much spam.

i would never decline a friend invitation, i like to have friends soo i feel happy when someone sent me a friend request :)

hi,

I agree with all comments here , when you cant talk with most of them , what is the outcome of it?

i dont think any one pay something for a long friends list , sure thay are useful,if we can arrange them & keep talking to all of them ,otherwise we will confuse & will dont know what to do?!!!!

may be we dont have enough time to talk with them , in this case approval them is a kind of insulting them.

so its very hard to arrange all of them.

thanks for topic ( its one of our problem here & need to debate to find best way to resolve it)

BEST WISHES

I'm also decline sometimes friend invitation. And I agree with Kanaobi. When I get a invitation without a message or I haven't "talk" with this person before or from a "friend collector" I decline the invitation.

In the past I often accepted a invitation and never hear again from my good "friend" and I must also say, I have not enough time to be a good friend to so much persons.

I say EXCUSE ME for all friends they must wait for my answer. It is not  that I don't want answer, I have not enough time and sometimes I forget it. Sorry to all friend. (My English is not so good, that I can write a answer in a minute. I must  search for each word.)

kanaobi

i agree with you  but with one different

i eccept them than if they did send any thing to cotact with me for along time

i delete them from my list