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albasel1975

Germany

May 26, 2011

 

We all have friends. A lot gets talked about friendships. Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend. What kind of relations do friends share? When can we call a friend a true friend, and when can our friends take us as their true friend. After a romantic relationship, friendships are the most important relationships we can have. Though all of us have family and distant family, most of us rely on friends for advice, comfort and inspiration. How do we define a relation that can be called as one of true friendship?

The very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies. You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think. We are sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are unguarded and open with friends in our talk.

A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him/her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children. If we share such relations with an adult we can say that we are true friends.

A true friend makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good friends, if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky. If you can also become a true friend of someone, you will be blessed, because it is much easier for all of us to expect but very difficult to give. Be a true friend yourself first.

05:04 AM Jan 17 2015

Sharing s Caring
Bahrain

I am sorry, I didn't know where to leave this comment. I saw some of your lessons and I felt very proud of your work. Great job, keep it up dear friend.

01:01 AM Jan 07 2015

buttafly

buttafly
Germany

No need to be sorry, Mahtab.

To quote another friend:

One person sharpens the mind of another :)

01:13 AM Jan 06 2015

Mahtab.bp

Mahtab.bp
Iran, Islamic Republic Of

Oh sorry Anja!

I always learn from you and my dear friends here! :-)

And thank you for your compliment about my words!

Indeed it's always me who enjoy of reading your great opinions everywhere and everytime! <3

12:50 AM Jan 06 2015

buttafly

buttafly
Germany

@ Mahtab

The noun sentiment is a synonym for thought, an opinion or a point of view.

None of your words appeared to me as sentimental ;) It's quite the opposite, dearest Mahtab. Reading your worldly-wise statements are a pleasure for my eyes and mind :-)

11:50 AM Jan 03 2015

Mahtab.bp

Mahtab.bp
Iran, Islamic Republic Of

Being a true friend is not hard if you love your friend !

Thank you dear Olya!

I deleted my last post because I felt it wasnt a good joking with you and we cant edit our posts here! :-)

Sorry Mr.Ahmad too

:-)

11:41 AM Jan 03 2015

ola33

ola33
Japan

Albasel and Mahtab, thank you. I' m pretty sure you're both true friends too.

11:05 AM Jan 03 2015

albasel1975
Germany

Dear friend Ola33

You should look for the reason why you don't have a true friend.

To be honest, sometimes we ourselves are the reason... 

and sometimes we unlukily don't come across the the people we wish to have as friends in our life.

True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils. Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a desert island... to find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune; to keep him is a blessing.

08:38 AM Jan 03 2015

ola33

ola33
Japan

I don't have a true friend. How to find one?

07:36 AM Jan 03 2015

Mahtab.bp

Mahtab.bp
Iran, Islamic Republic Of

Thank you Ahmad for your great words about true friend!

You must be writer!! :-D

My dearAnja ,

I wonder which part of my comment was sentimental?!! :-))

I approved Ahmad today and now I see I wasnt wrong because my precious friends are his friends too!

07:12 AM Jan 03 2015

buttafly

buttafly
Germany

A perfect cocktail of true sentiments, Mahtab and Ahmad :)

I can't imagine what life would be like without true friends.

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May 20, 2011

Colors often have different meanings in various cultures. And even in Western societies, the meanings of various colors have changed over the years. But today in the U.S., researchers have generally found the following to be accurate.

 

Black

Black is the color of authority and power. It is popular in fashion because it makes people appear thinner. It is also stylish and timeless. Black also implies submission. Priests wear black to signify submission to God. Some fashion experts say a woman wearing black implies submission to men. Black outfits can also be overpowering, or make the wearer seem aloof or evil. Villains, such as Dracula, often wear black.

White

Brides wear white to symbolize innocence and purity. White reflects light and is considered a summer color. White is popular in decorating and in fashion because it is light, neutral, and goes with everything. However, white shows dirt and is therefore more difficult to keep clean than other colors. Doctors and nurses wear white to imply sterility.

Red

The most emotionally intense color, red stimulates a faster heartbeat and breathing. It is also the color of love. Red clothing gets noticed and makes the wearer appear heavier. Since it is an extreme color, red clothing might not help people in negotiations or confrontations. Red cars are popular targets for thieves. In decorating, red is usually used as an accent. Decorators say that red furniture should be perfect since it will attract attention.

The most romantic color, pink, is more tranquilizing. Sports teams sometimes paint the locker rooms used by opposing teams bright pink so their opponents will lose energy.

Blue

The color of the sky and the ocean, blue is one of the most popular colors. It causes the opposite reaction as red. Peaceful, tranquil blue causes the body to produce calming chemicals, so it is often used in bedrooms. Blue can also be cold and depressing. Fashion consultants recommend wearing blue to job interviews because it symbolizes loyalty. People are more productive in blue rooms. Studies show weightlifters are able to handle heavier weights in blue gyms.

Green

Currently the most popular decorating color, green symbolizes nature. It is the easiest color on the eye and can improve vision. It is a calming, refreshing color. People waiting to appear on TV sit in "green rooms" to relax. Hospitals often use green because it relaxes patients. Brides in the Middle Ages wore green to symbolize fertility. Dark green is masculine, conservative, and implies wealth. However, seamstresses often refuse to use green thread on the eve of a fashion show for fear it will bring bad luck.

Yellow

Cheerful sunny yellow is an attention getter. While it is considered an optimistic color, people lose their tempers more often in yellow rooms, and babies will cry more. It is the most difficult color for the eye to take in, so it can be overpowering if overused. Yellow enhances concentration, hence its use for legal pads. It also speeds metabolism.

Purple

The color of royalty, purple connotes luxury, wealth, and sophistication. It is also feminine and romantic. However, because it is rare in nature, purple can appear artificial.

Brown

Solid, reliable brown is the color of earth and is abundant in nature. Light brown implies genuineness while dark brown is similar to wood or leather. Brown can also be sad and wistful. Men are more apt to say brown is one of their favorite colors.

Colors of the Flag

In Us flag white stands for purity and innocence. Red represents valor and hardiness, while blue signifies justice, perseverance, and vigilance. The stars represent the heavens and all the good that people strive for, while the stripes emulate the sun's rays.


so, what among all these colours, what is is your favourite colour and why ?

May 7, 2011

My Dear friends,

    Back to you again after very long period of absence...

Today I have a new topic which need to be discussed and every one show his own point of view..

If we exchange our opinions all of us will get benifit. and as usual we will enjoy discussing the matter together...

The topic which I brought to you today is " Why do People Lie?"

If you look around, you will find many people who lie many times during the day. In fact, it is said that almost all people on this planet lie at some or other point of their life. It is believed that the circumstances prevailing at that moment compels the people to lie. In most of the cases, people lie to protect their personal interests. However, there are people who lie to deceive others while, some others are just addicted to lying. There are many who lie in order to avoid any sort of criticism from the society. Given in the next paragraphs are the reasons why people lie in relationships.

Why People Lie in Relationships?

It can be quite difficult to understand why people lie about themselves in relationships. The prime reason for this may be, that they fear that their partner would leave them if they open up their secrets. People lie in relationships to keep the negative aspects of their personality hidden from their partners. Many people do not admit about their past relationships or an extra martial affair, as they do not want their partner to interfere in their daily activities. The reason why people lie and cheat in relationships is because they have an inferiority complex and would not want their partners to know about it. Fear in the minds is responsible for making the people lie. For example, a man may lie about his financial position, annual earnings and assets to keep his relationship stable with a woman. Here, the fear is of the woman walking out of the relationship, if she comes to know about the truth. The most amusing thing is that people lie even though they know that they will get exposed at some point of their life. However, the lie spoken gives temporary relief and a false sense of achievement and being smart, which these people enjoy.

Why People Lie at Work?

There are many reasons for the question - why do people lie at work? The cut to throat competition to complete the tasks and achieve the higher positions, often makes people tell a lie. A lie is also used by many people for bad mouthing the rival employees, to gain their position or get ahead of them. Giving false reasons for not completing the targets is observed in many places. People also lie at the work place for improving their poor image. Many people lie for making quick financial gains. For example, a shop owner may lie to his customers about the quality of the goods he has been selling.


Some More Reasons for Why People Lie

The reasons why people lie and manipulate may not be negative always. In some cases, a lie is spoken to ensure the well being of a person. In many situations, one does not have the time to explain the entire situation to the opposite person and convince him that what is being done is right. In many cases, a lie can help to control a particular situation from worsening.

 

Thus, we conclude that understanding why people lie psychology, is very difficult. However, a lie spoken for a good purpose should not be looked upon as a dishonest behavior. Still, as far as possible, we should avoid lying as it creates a bad impression and makes it difficult for the other people to trust us.
 
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albasel1975